Thursday, December 22, 2011
UN calls for protecting gay rights worldwide
New Laws Protect Women from Abuse in Pakistan
Azim Mai's husband allegedly threw acid in her face last year after she refused to sell their two boys to a man in Dubai to use as camel racers. The 35-year-old mother of five can no longer find work as a maid because her deeply scarred face scares potential employers.
Acid burnings are among the most horrific crimes against women in Pakistan that are now criminalized in a landmark set of laws passed by the parliament. They stand to protect millions of women from common forms of abuse in a conservative, Muslim country with a terrible history of gender inequality.
Rights activists praised the laws Tuesday while stressing their passage was just the first step, and likely not the hardest one. It could be even more difficult to get Pakistan's corrupt and inefficient legal system to protect women's rights that many men in this patriarchal society likely oppose.
"This is a big achievement for the women of Pakistan, civil society and the organizations that have been working for more than 30 years to get women friendly bills passed," said Nayyar Shabana Kiyani, who has lobbied for the legislation as part of The Aurat Foundation, a women's rights group.
"We can't really get good results until the laws are implemented at the grassroots level," she added.
The two bills containing the new laws, which received final approval from the Senate on Monday, stiffened the punishment for acid attacks and criminalized practices such as marrying off young girls to settle tribal disputes and preventing women from inheriting property.
Mistreatment of women is widespread in Pakistan, a nation of some 175 million where most people are poor, only half the adults can read and extremist ideologies, including the Taliban's, are gaining traction.
In 2010, at least 8,000 acid attacks, forced marriages and other forms of violence against women were reported, according to The Aurat Foundation. Because the group relied mostly on media reports, the figure is likely an undercount.
Women are discriminated against in other ways as well. Pakistan ranked third to last in 2011 in the World Economic Forum's Global Gender Gap Report, only beating Chad and Yemen. The report captures the magnitude of gender-based disparities in things like health and education.
The new laws explicitly criminalized acid attacks and mandated that convicted attackers would serve a minimum sentence of 14 years that could extend to life, and pay a minimum fine of about $11,200.
Other new laws mandate a minimum prison sentence of three years for forcing a woman to marry, including to settle tribal disputes; five years for preventing a woman from inheriting property; and three years for a practice known as "marriage to the Holy Quran."
Feudal families in rural areas of Pakistan engage in this practice so that women won't receive marriage proposals and their share of the inheritance will stay in the family, said Farzana Bari, head of the gender studies department at Quaid-e-Azam University in Islamabad.
"This legislation addresses the patriarchal traditions that have been used against women to violate their rights," said Bari. "People have been doing these kinds of things for so long that they don't even think it's unjust.
Monday, December 19, 2011
Foster kids over-medicated
It is very interesting to see how marginalized groups are being treated with medication as a solution to all our problems because no one (the doctors) want to address the sytems of oppression that are getting us anxious, and upset.
This however, is somewhat of a hopeful video in that once these children were adopted many of them were slowly weaned off of their medications.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tf9U3ZcugSI
Montreal massacre
I chose this because many times when the story is covered what is failed to be addressed is that it was not just a trajedy but an act of violence against women (patriarch and its influence in the media).
It is really important to note this becasue many times the media tends to neglect many things as has been seen with the dissappearance of Aboriginal prostitutes by the pig farmer. The media, as a patriarchal system, neglects to focus on how women were impacted by this incident rather focusing on everyone at the School when the incident happened to women. Similarly the Aboriginal women's dissappearances were neglected because of racism (they are Aboriginal), colonization (we take their land and ignore when they are dissappearing), and finally because they are women.
http://archives.cbc.ca/society/crime_justice/topics/398/
Anti-bullying bill a front for ‘sex ed’ agenda, groups say
Being bullied because of their sexual orientation is a part of the problem for the Church to dismiss this is an eexample of why it is such an oppressive and patriarchal system--run by middle aged white men that support only things like anti-abortions Bills which take away the rights of women to their bodies as we discussed in the modules of women and their right to decide what should be done with their body as well as the Module on Aboriginal women and forced abortions.
The media and schools tend to focus on bullying as being related to how one looks (fat, skinny, short, too tall) and other physical factors yet they neglect to talk abou things like race and now sexuality as well.
http://www.thestar.com/news/canada/politics/article/1097682--anti-bullying-bill-a-front-for-sex-ed-agenda-groups-say
Woman buried in Quebec poised to become 'first' aboriginal saint
What is interesting when reading her story (which you can access of Wikipedia) is that she was refused to practice her choice religion by her uncle (patriarchy) and this was likely because she was a woman she was expected to go with the dominant group religion. As well, the anger of her people is not examined in that colonization, imposed Christianity on Aboriginal peoples which could explain their treatment of her (which was still wrong). Anyhow, now they are Sainting her for practicing the colonizers relgion otherwise would an Aboriginal woman or she, have been considered for Saint Hood? http://www.winnipegfreepress.com/canada/breakingnews/woman-buried-in-quebec-poised-to-become-first-aboriginal-saint-135886243.html
NDP accuses Ottawa of 'punishing' Attawapiskat

Sunday, December 18, 2011
Rick Womick: Tennessee Lawmaker Calls Allah A 'False God,' Warns Of Muslim Immigrant 'Population Jihad'

Report tracks explosion of religious lobbying in Washington

Lowe's pulls ads from Muslim show, sparks protest

Saturday, December 17, 2011
GQ Makes Shockingly Homophobic Remark About Adam Lambert On Twitter
Click on this link for futher information
http://thegloss.com/culture/gg-adam-lambert-homophobic-tweet-291/
Andrej Pejic Lands A Lingerie Campaign… Modeling Push-Up Bras
Friday, December 16, 2011
Four Ways Obama’s Birth Control Fail Hurts Young Women of Color
"U.S. Health Secretary Kathleen Sebelius voided the FDA’s decision to allow girls under 17 to buy emergency contraception (EC) without a prescription. That Obama-backed overrule came in spite of ample evidence that the single dose of the hormone levonorgestrel, sold under the brand name Plan B One-Step, reduces pregnancy risk by up to 90 percent when taken within 72 hours of a busted condom, missed pill or any other contraceptive fail. "
http://colorlines.com/archives/2011/12/four_ways_obamas_birth_control_fail_hurts_young_women_of_color.html
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Thursday, December 15, 2011
Nobel Peace Prize awarded in Oslo to THREE women!

Libyan women battle for empowerment

The Red Tent

Jezebel.com
Anyway, it's worth checking out jezebel.com in general.
Maggie's Zine Launch on Saturday
Details are at Maggie's website. I thought that you might be interested, especially those of you who got to meet with our colleagues from Maggie's who presented in one of your classes. I plan to be there and am really excited to see the zine.
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Saudi Arabia: Woman Convicted Of 'Sorcery' Executed
I wanted to share this with women in the class because it took me back to all the discussions we have had on women and violence. To me personally this is one of the most frustrating and horrible acts and the fact that this kind of violence against women still exist shocked me! This article was published in the Huffington Post on December 12th.I also was in a lecture that talked about how this was act of patriarchy that aimed to silence women by doing these sorts of things to cause them to be afraid to speak out.
"RIYADH, Saudi Arabia — Saudi authorities have executed a woman convicted of practicing magic and sorcery.
The Saudi Interior Ministry says in a statement the execution took place Monday, but gave no details on the woman's crime.
The London-based al-Hayat daily, however, quoted Abdullah al-Mohsen, chief of the religious police who arrested the woman, as saying she had tricked people into thinking she could treat illnesses, charging them $800 per session.
The paper said a female investigator followed up, and the woman was arrested in April, 2009, and later convicted in a Saudi court.
It did not give the woman's name, but said she was in her 60s.
The execution brings the total to 76 this year in Saudi Arabia, according to an Associated Press count. At least three have been women.
Amnesty International issued a statement expressing shock at the incident, noting that the woman was beheaded. Amnesty's interim Director of the Middle East and North Africa Programme, Philip Luther, condemned the execution:
"The charges of 'witchcraft and sorcery' are not defined as crimes in Saudi Arabia and to use them to subject someone to the cruel and extreme penalty of execution is truly appalling."
ARE YOU SURPRISED THESE KINDS OF ACTS OF VIOLENCE STILL EXIST?
Intersex People

Hey all!
I don't know if you heard, but Australia recently elected the world's first openly intersex person.
He ran as an independent Councillor and on a campaign to represent the community.
He speaks openly about his struggle with his identity as he was raised female.
I think this is a huge win for intersex people. Hopefully by having someone in the public eye, it will help "normalize" it and rid some of the stigmas, and taboos surrounding being intersex.
Check out the link for more information:
http://www.samesame.com.au/news/local/7737/Melbourne-elects-Australias-first-intersex-Mayor.htm
Children who simply knew
http://www.bostonglobe.com/metro/2011/12/11/led-child-who-simply-knew/SsH1U9Pn9JKArTiumZdxaL/story.html?s_campaign=sm_fb%3Fs_campaign%3Dsm_fb
Day of Silence –April 20th 2012
http://www.dayofsilence.org/
Eight year old transgender girl
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2062296/When-kids-said-I-boy-sad-Transgender-child-says-shes-happier-living-girl-born-male.html
Enrollment form with transgenderr option
http://uidnumber.org/aadhaar/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/Aadhaar_number_Application_Form.pdf
Tuesday, December 13, 2011
The Grameen Bank

Sunday, December 11, 2011
SISSIES
Christie Blatchford (I believe the same one who wrote about Jack Layton's letter - correct me if I'm wrong) writes about how the boys/men in Toronto are too feminized.
I was disgusted as I read this article. I was appalled by the fact that anyone would denounce the use of hugs among boys. She suggests that men should be "manly" and all that that entails (she suggests like the Ford brothers). She goes on to state that we know that men have feelings and that is all we need to know. Hugging I suppose is a way they show their feelings - how dare they! How offensive!
I cannot get over need people have for boys and girls or men and women to fall into gender stereotypes.
Check our the article for yourself: http://fullcomment.nationalpost.com/2011/12/10/christie-blatchford-toronto-city-of-sissies/
Thursday, December 8, 2011
Friends with Benefits / F*ck Buddies / Booty Calls etc.
I recently was hanging out with friend, and we were make-out buddies. It was nothing serious and I had made myself perfectly clear that I didn't want anything serious. He seemed to understand that. It was becoming clear after a couple of weeks, that he was developing feelings for me, however we kept playing under this facade that this was a no strings attached relationship. That is until I brought someone else home with me in front of him. To say he was upset is an understatement. His pride was definitely hurt, however he made a lot of assumptions about me leaving with someone else that made the situation far worse than it was.
Since this all unfolded, he has attempted to save face and tell me that he didn't really have feelings for me. He wants to continue this no-strings attached relationship, which is great, except that I don't. I don't want to lead someone on that this casual relationship will ever become more serious when I know that something is missing for that to ever happen.
When he asks me why I have tried to explain to him why.
Firstly, we are friends. I am friends with his friends. I am new to Toronto and I like this group of friends and they have been friends for years. I am the newbie to the group. If/when this friends with benefits thing falls apart, I will be the one who loses this group of friends.
I am the only girl in this group of boys. I love it. However, when it comes down to it, I know that they will side with him. I know that I don't want something more with him. I am certain I will be blamed when things don't work out. When I decided I want to spend time with someone else besides him, I know that I will be called a "slut" or a "whore" or whatever because I want to keep my options open. I HATE that if he did the same (hooking up with other women), it'd be okay.
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
The Purity Myth
Plan B!
Sunday, December 4, 2011
National Day of Remembrance and Action on Violence Against Women
Public Transit
As I rode the TTC down Eglington, a young woman (early twenties) got on the bus and sat near my friend and I at the back of the bus. There was a man sitting near us as well, who was clearly intoxicated. This man went on to hit on his woman, who clearly showed very little interest in him and was clearly uncomfortable. I was unable to hear all of their conversation, but she faked a smile and acknowledged him when he spoke to her, but never really engaged in the conversation.
I heard her drop the "I have a boyfriend" card, I assume for the same reason I do, it's a polite way to avoid unwanted advancements, to not bruise his ego. I have a fake boyfriend named Bradley that I met at McMaster for these exact situations.
At one point he grabbed her wrist as he spoke to her, she had to tug her wrist a couple of times before he let go. She never said anything and neither did I.
I kept thinking to myself this situation isn't right, I should say something, but I couldn't figure out what to say. As her stop came up she stood up and so did the man who spent the trip from Eglington Stn to Eglington West Stn chatting to her. I told my friend that is this guy got off at the same stop as her, we would get off as well and walk her home. I was not in a rush and I had a bad feeling in my gut about it.
She got off and the man was about too but his friend stopped him. He then went on to start to undo his pants to expose himself, luckily another man stopped him.
As I reflected on this, I kept thinking to myself, she was being polite by engaging in conversation and smiling, even though she felt uncomfortable. I would have done the same. I would have told him about my fake boyfriend and I would have text a friend to have them call me so I could avoid the situation. So I didn't have to say what I was really thinking, "I am not interested, you are giving me the creeps and I am very uncomfortable."
The thing is I worry, as imagine this girl was. I worry if I am honest that his bruise ego will put my safety in further danger. I worry that when I get off the bus / streetcar / subway that he will get off as well. I worry he will follow me home, and I worry that I won't be able to defend myself, that no one will see/hear, or no one will intervene.
I wish I had of said something to this man. But the truth is, late at night, when it's dark, it's hard too. I would have walked this girl home, and I am sure that would have meant a lot. But by not saying something, this man will go on thinking that his is acceptable behaviour, and that is not okay!
Shameless is a Toronto-based, feminist magazine for young women. It's a great example of indie, alternative, grass-roots feminism. I admit I'm a little biased because their Director, Sheila Sampath is a pal and she designed the buttons and banners for our Intro to Feminism course; also Kate Christine Miller, who you'll see is on their staff, is an AWCCA graduate.
My nieces both got Shameless subscriptions when they turned 16 and they continue to be fans. I hope you check it out, and I especially hope that some of you will consider contributing to their blog and possible writing for them. Sheila and Kate are both eager to publish material from our students; I hope to get them in to actually recruit sometime next term!
Thursday, December 1, 2011
Sex Worker Slain in Toronto
"But I just don't want anybody to lose the the sight of [the fact] that she was murdered." -Maureen Freeman, aunt to victim Leanne Freeman.Gay-Straight Alliances vs Equality Clubs
Don't get me wrong, fighting all types of inequality is great! However with bullying, especially gay-bullying is being highly publicized, I think it's important that kids have a safe space. I also think it's important that kids who identify as gay, or who are struggling with their identity, or who have same sex-parents have a place where they feel connected to other people who share similar experiences to them. Furthermore, it's important to know that there are hetero people out there that will be and are their allies!
The article also mentions as a teen, they are too young to know there sexual preference. This really bugs me! I knew I would love boys/men until the day I died when I was 10 years old, fourteen years later, nothing has changed! Why can't someone know they prefer the same sex as themselves? Foolish people.
You can read the article at: http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/opinions/editorials/catholic-schools-dont-ask-dont-tell-policy-bad-for-gay-students/article2255606/